If only all of our loving feelings could last forever. Remember the amazing passionate feeling of just falling in love. You feel so connected. Like you are one with each other. This intimate connection however actually pushes you towards learning your greatest life lessons that you need to know. Some of these lessons are unfinished…
read moreCourier Post has recently shared how some South Jersey women have made it through a divorce and picked up the pieces left behind by a broken marriage. The article also cited how important counseling is when it comes to dealing with this life-altering event. This article was published on the Courier Post Website (The Courier…
read moreWow, I will have to admit I enjoy watching the Bachelorette. This season was a bit slow for me all and all but that was quickly made up with the last two episodes. Two weeks ago we watched Brooks say goodbye to Des . He basically told her that I enjoy our time together but…
read moreYou can live your life free from all of your fears and worries. You just need to learn the skills to do that. We have conquered other addictions such as smoking or weight loss , simply by saying STOP to our minds , thoughts and actions. You can use this same technique to get out…
read moreWhen being in love means being upset and being in pain we are loving too much. When most or all of our conversations are about our intimate partner, his or her thoughts, feelings and desires then we are loving too much. When we continue to make excuses for his or her moodiness, bad temper, criticism,…
read moreWhy do we fall in love with the people we do? The basic reason is what I call the images that are created from our past- they are a buried internal images created in childhood of one or both of our caretakers. This image serves two purposes: it helps the baby recognize and distinguish the…
read moreCoaching so many of my married clients who so desperately want to have a perfect marriage really got my wheels spinning to create this entry. Is there really a perfect relationship out there? Is there really a perfect marriage? I would like to challenge you to accept and expect imperfection in your marriage. Expect that…
read moreLadies, It seems that one of the most pressing questions I receive from my female clients who are unhappy in their marriage is “Should I stay and work on my marriage or should I divorce?” Obviously this is a very personal question that needs to be handled based on your situation but there are some…
read moreIn life we have the tendency to make Assumptions about Everything. The problem is we believe our Assumptions are true. We could swear they are real and create stories in our head to back up our perceived truths. We make an assumption about what someone did or said , we misunderstand, we take things personally,…
read moreHave you ever smiled when you were really angry? Have you ever acted mean and upset when inside you were just really afraid? Do you ever laugh at things or say it’s no big deal when inside you were feeling very sad and rejected? This is what I mean when I say not telling the…
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