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Why You’re Still Waiting for Her Turn

Why You’re Still Waiting for Her Turn

If you’re anything like most women I coach, there’s a deep, quiet voice inside of you that says: “There has to be more than this.” And yet… you’re still not doing the thing. Still not speaking up. Still not putting yourself first. Still not taking the leap. So let me ask: What’s really holding you…

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Meet Your Inner Gremlins (And Show Them the Door)
Meet Your Inner Gremlins

Meet Your Inner Gremlins (And Show Them the Door)

I want to talk about something we all have, but almost none of us were taught to recognize: our gremlins. I’m talking about those sneaky inner voices that whisper: “You’re too much.” “You’re not enough.” “Don’t speak up, people won’t like it.” “Don’t try, you’ll just fail.” Sound familiar? What Is a Gremlin? A gremlin…

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Big Mind: A New Way to Hear Yourself

Big Mind: A New Way to Hear Yourself

If you’ve ever said, “I just want to hear myself think,” or “I don’t even know what I want anymore”… you’re not alone. After years (okay, decades) of tuning into everyone else’s needs, kids, partners, coworkers, parents, it’s not surprising that your own inner voice has gotten a little... faint. That’s why I want to…

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Why I Love Imago Dialogue
Why I Love Imago Dialogue

Why I Love Imago Dialogue

Let’s talk about something that touches every part of our lives…communication. I don’t mean the quick check-ins or “What’s for dinner?” kind of talk. I’m talking about the real stuff: the conversations that build intimacy, bridge disconnection, and make us feel seen. Because if you’re like so many of us in the Her Turn community,…

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And then I turned 60

And then I turned 60

I was born into a complicated household. Loved being a kid. Loved escaping outside — riding bikes, playing in the woods, getting shipped off to camp — anything to break free from the chaos. And then... I was 20. Twenty. I left after one semester at the University of Maryland. Academics were easy. But something…

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What Wolves Taught Me About Life and Connection

What Wolves Taught Me About Life and Connection

Last week, I had the chance to visit a wolf sanctuary. As part of 4PC, a global group of coaches led by Rich Litvin, I’ve been through many experiences that push me to grow. But this one stood out. I’ll be honest. I was nervous. Not because of the wolves, but because of the unknown.…

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The Secret to Living with More Ease and Fulfillment

The Secret to Living with More Ease and Fulfillment

After 15 years as a life coach, I’ve learned that trying to control everything only leads to frustration. Many successful professionals excel at managing businesses, leading teams, and making money, but when it comes to personal fulfillment, relationships, and inner peace, they feel stuck. At some point, the same skills that drive success in business…

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How to Open Your Heart and Find Inner Peace

How to Open Your Heart and Find Inner Peace

As a life coach, I’ve worked with so many people who struggle with relationships, confidence, and finding their direction in life. One of the biggest lessons I teach is that our emotions do not define us. They are just experiences that come and go. This idea comes from Living from a Place of Surrender by…

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Why Your Mind is Keeping You Stuck in Your Relationships and How to Break Free
Why Your Mind is Keeping You Stuck in Your Relationships and How to Break Free

Why Your Mind is Keeping You Stuck in Your Relationships and How to Break Free

Have you ever wondered why specific patterns keep showing up in your relationships? Maybe you always attract the same type of partner, struggle with confidence, or feel like no matter what you do, you can't shake the fear of being judged. I see this all the time with my coaching clients, and honestly, I've battled…

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