The decision to get married will change one's life more deeply than almost any other decision we could ever make. So it continues to amaze me that people will rush into marriage with little or no Relationship preparation or Communication skills that are needed for making a marriage successful. Couples pay far more attention to…
read moreIf only all of our loving feelings could last forever. Remember the amazing passionate feeling of just falling in love. You feel so connected. Like you are one with each other. This intimate connection however actually pushes you towards learning your greatest life lessons that you need to know. Some of these lessons are unfinished…
read moreWow, I will have to admit I enjoy watching the Bachelorette. This season was a bit slow for me all and all but that was quickly made up with the last two episodes. Two weeks ago we watched Brooks say goodbye to Des . He basically told her that I enjoy our time together but…
read moreWhen being in love means being upset and being in pain we are loving too much. When most or all of our conversations are about our intimate partner, his or her thoughts, feelings and desires then we are loving too much. When we continue to make excuses for his or her moodiness, bad temper, criticism,…
read moreHey Ladies- Just wanted to reach out and touch on that ugly topic of Jealousy! You know about that ugly headed monster, right? Well I am here to tell you the facts about men, jealousy and your new attitude ! anytime a woman competes with another woman, she demeans herself. Remember, inside the bedroom as…
read moreWhy do we fall in love with the people we do? The basic reason is what I call the images that are created from our past- they are a buried internal images created in childhood of one or both of our caretakers. This image serves two purposes: it helps the baby recognize and distinguish the…
read moreCoaching so many of my married clients who so desperately want to have a perfect marriage really got my wheels spinning to create this entry. Is there really a perfect relationship out there? Is there really a perfect marriage? I would like to challenge you to accept and expect imperfection in your marriage. Expect that…
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