Men, I get it. You want to be a great guy, a good “catch,” and the kind of guy women want to date and marry.
But you’re stuck. You’re not sure what you should do or how to do it. And what’s worse? You feel like you’re always getting in your own way.
You try to do the right thing, but it feels like she’s always just one step ahead of you—and that can be so frustrating. We, as women, speak an entirely different language than you do.
And then there are the arguments. You know they don’t help anyone (not even her!), but somehow, they just keep happening anyway… She wants to be heard and get her feelings out, but you haven’t learned the ducking and dodging technique, so you’re left feeling attacked, shamed, and criticized. Maybe even feeling like a little boy whose Mom is telling them, once again, what they are doing wrong.
The good news is there is hope. I can teach you how to get back on track and live your best life, your best relationship and be a magnet to new women and super attractive to your existing partner.
Here are a few helpful pointers
- Stop arguing. Learn why arguing doesn’t work; it’s my golden rule for men… “No Arguing!” When you lose… you lose, and when you “win,” you lose? There is nothing to be gained from arguing that will benefit you in your relationship.
- Define your non-negotiable terms before entering a relationship with a woman. These are different for every man I coach. Learn why defining them early in the game is so important so that when things start to go south, as they do in all relationships at some point or another, there is something concrete that both parties can refer back to when making decisions about how they want their relationship
Enriching your relationships can be learned. Like all things building a bridge, making a meal, or playing an instrument, there are steps to follow that will lead you towards understanding your woman better and mastering the art of communication. In my coaching practice, I have taught all of my male clients the keys and secrets to understanding their women.