A Little Secret for the Guys Out There

Of all the complaints I hear from my male clients I would have to say the ones I hear the most are not feeling appreciated and “being in the dog house” without having any idea as to what they did wrong. Guys let me tell you a little secret. Woman have an invisible scorecard. And here is how it works…..Everything that you do for your woman scores a point. Men sometimes feel the little things are insignificant when compared to the big things but the opposite is true. Woman need many expressions of love in a relationship to feel loved. When she is feeling loved she will love you back. Try keeping up with the little things and see all of the changes it can make in your relationship. Some ways to score points with your woman.

1.   When returning home from work find her first and give her a hug.

2.  Practice listening and not giving her advice.

3.   Compliment her on how she looks.

4. Validate her feelings when she is upset (Never tell her she is wrong to feel the way she is feeling)

5.  Create occasions when you can both dress up

6. Offer to carry in the groceries

7. Ask her how she is feeling

8. when she is tired offer to help out

9. Throw in a load of laundry

10. Handle the trash, lightbulb changes and household repairs without her asking.

I know some of these things seem simple but they will go a long way in your relationship.