I just got back from a coaching conference—eight of us, including my coach Rich Litvin.
Every time I’m in a new room, women are surprised when they hear I’m 61.
It’s not about my face.
It’s not about how I look.
Aging isn’t written in your wrinkles.
It’s written in how you carry yourself.
How you sit.
How you walk into a room.
How much of your life you’ve quietly decided is already behind you.
My husband and I are known for one thing:
We create experiences.
Not once-a-year, wait-for-a-special-occasion experiences.
Real life. Big life. Last-minute New York trips, concerts, over-the-top celebrations—because we felt like it.
We’ve brought friends and family into that world with us.
And every single time, they say the same thing:
“That was the best time ever.”
So here’s the question—
If we know how good life can feel…
why do we say no to it?
Why do we start staying in more instead of going out?
Why do we start acting our age instead of living our life?
Why do we lead in our conversations with what’s our latest health issue instead of our biggest joy?
At some point, most women don’t age— they act differently.
And then they call that “getting older.”
What’s one thing you used to love that you’ve stopped doing… and why?