If you’re anything like most women I coach, there’s a deep, quiet voice inside of you that says:
“There has to be more than this.”
And yet… you’re still not doing the thing.
Still not speaking up.
Still not putting yourself first.
Still not taking the leap.
So let me ask: What’s really holding you back?
The Invisible Saboteurs
Inside every woman is a powerful force. But also? A voice that’s terrified of what might happen if she truly stepped into that power.
That voice is your gremlin.
It says things like:
- “Don’t rock the boat.”
- “You’re too old to change now.”
- “People like you don’t get to have it all.”
These gremlins started as protection. They formed when you were young, trying to keep you safe from rejection, shame, or disappointment.
But now? They’re just keeping you small.
And they feed limiting beliefs. Those invisible rules you live by without realizing it:
“I can’t rest until everyone else is okay.”
“If I try, I’ll fail…and that’ll prove I never had it in me.”
“People won’t love me if I stop performing.”
Sound familiar?
Why You Haven’t Taken Her Turn
You haven’t stepped into your next chapter because these voices are running the show.
They make you:
- Over-give.
- Over-achieve.
- Over-function.
And let me tell you something: It works.
Until it doesn’t.
Because burnout isn’t purpose.
People-pleasing isn’t passion.
And perfectionism isn’t peace.
The Her Turn Shift
In the Her Turn community, we do something radical.
We listen to these voices. And then…we challenge them.
We learn to say:
“That belief? It’s not mine.”
“That voice? It’s not the truth.”
“That fear? It’s just a story.”
This isn’t just about personal growth. This is about liberation.
From guilt.
From shame.
From the roles you never chose.
Your Turn It Starts Now
You don’t have to earn your turn.
You don’t have to prove your worth.
You just have to decide.
It’s not selfish.
It’s not too late.
It’s not a fantasy.
It’s your life.
And it’s Her Turn.
Come join us.
We’re waiting for you.
With love,
Abbe