Woman who love More when they should love Less

Ladies-When being in love means being in pain you are loving too much.  When all of your conversations with everyone of your girlfriends are about Him, his thoughts, his feelings, his opinions,-you are loving too much.  When you excuse his bad temper, moodiness, indifference, or insulting put-downs, you are loving too much.  When you try to become his therapist or coach you are loving too much.  When you are reading self-help books for him and underlining parts that would help him-you are loving too much.  When you don’t really like most of his basic personality traits, values and behaviors, but think that if only you are loving enough he will change…you are loving too much.  When your relationship with him jeopardizes your emotional and sometimes physical well being, you are loving too much.

And finally, if you as a woman want so desperately to be in an intimate relationship but are always finding unhealthy, unloving partners instead, you need to explore the possibility that you may be unconsciously recreating and reliving significant negative aspects of your own childhood.

I have helped numerous clients become aware of the origins of those patterns, and taught them the tools to change their lives.  The choice, as always, is yours.