How Men Keep Score-Ladies Listen Up!

I just love having the opportunity to “pick” some of the thinking of my male clients when we are coaching.  And one thing is for sure.  Men give “points” to their woman and they don’t score like we do !  Every time a woman shows appreciation to her man he gives her a point in return.  To a man in a relationship that is his main concern.  Your love and appreciation.  Woman often times do More than necessary to earn a man’s love and only end up resenting the extra things they did in the first place.  Men have a love tank just like a woman does. But his love tank is mainly filled up by how she reacts to him or how she is feeling about him.  The secret to fulfilling a man lies in learning to express your love through your feelings , not your actions.  If a man does something for you even if he maybe wasn’t in a particularly loving mood towards you and you receive his actions with love and appreciation he will begin to feel loving towards you again.

BONUS POINTS-  bonus points with men can be earned in the following situations.  When he makes a mistake and you don’t say “I told you so”,  when he disappoints you and he knows he screwed up but you don’t punish him for it.  when he gets lost driving and you don’t make a big deal about it., when he forgets to pick something up  and you simply say “It’s ok, would you still get it?”, When he withdrawals or needs alone time and he isn’t punished for it, when he asks you to do something and you just say no without giving him your list of reasons why not, when you are happy to see him when he gets home, when you enjoy having sex with him, when you overlook his mistakes and don’t get upset.

So ladies, as you can see Men clearly give out points far differently than we do !  Stayed tuned to learn how and why Men take penalty points away.