The Secret to Changing your Man

Ladies, the secret to successfully changing your man lies in the strategies that you choose.  You need to approach your man through his eyes so you can approach him in the exact way that will make sense to him.  Only then will you be able to be understood by him.

Experts say Women speak approximately ten thousand words per day while men on the other hand are around 2000 words per day.  This may explain why at the end of a long day at work men look like they have nothing else to say.  They’ve used up all their words apparently!  Have you ever noticed when you want to talk he has every excuse in the book.  Mornings are too busy.  Evenings he wants to unwind.  Weekends , he’s too busy with the house or the TV.  The list goes on and on.  The reason is quite simple.  Women are more “right” brained so verbal ability, comprehension, and other language skills come more natural for us.   Men don’t like to engage in activities they don’t enjoy or excel at.

If a man wants to feel “close” to his male buddy he isn’t likely to call him on the phone just to chat.  He will probably call him up and schedule an Action activity such as golf, fishing, see a baseball game or “do” lunch.  Doing things breeds connection with men.  If you want to learn how to communicate with him in “his” world then you need to go where the “action” is, where the boys are.  You need to talk less and act more. Ladies save your breath and get your feet moving in the right direction .  You will see how quickly your man will get your message.  Confused as to the right direction to get his attention….well Ask Abbe Anything and the answers are yours…