If only all of our loving feelings could last forever. Remember the amazing passionate feeling of just falling in love. You feel so connected. Like you are one with each other. This intimate connection however actually pushes you towards learning your greatest life lessons that you need to know. Some of these lessons are unfinished business from your childhood. Your romantic relationships allow you to bond with each other. The difficult part sometimes is learning how to release. If your personal boundaries are not developed , you may have trouble giving your partner freedom in your relationship. You may cling to him or her, avoid telling the complete truth , run from each other. Many people are unwilling to do the work that stands behind the initial addictive feeling when we fall in love. Some people are just addicted to the chemistry of romance and want to avoid personal growth. In the long run however, there is no escaping the life lessons you will learn from being in a committed relationship.